金钱依恋风格问卷 Money Attachment Style Questionnaire

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共 68 道题,大约需要 10-15 分钟。
每道题请根据你的真实感受作答,没有对错之分。

这份问卷的价值,来自你的真实。你们之间的关系,也值得这份真实。
Please fill this out independently — do not discuss with your partner first.
68 questions total, approximately 10–15 minutes.
Answer based on how you genuinely feel. There are no right or wrong answers.

The value of this questionnaire comes from your honesty. Your relationship deserves it.

第一部分:亲密关系感受(共 36 题) Part 1: Experiences in Close Relationships (36 questions)

以下问题关于你在亲密关系中的感受。请根据你通常的感受作答,而不是某一次特定的经历。
评分:1 = 完全不同意,7 = 完全同意
The following questions concern how you feel in close relationships. Please respond based on how you generally feel, not just in one specific relationship.
Scale: 1 = Disagree strongly, 7 = Agree strongly

1. I'm afraid that I will lose my partner's love.我害怕失去伴侣的爱。

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2. I often worry that my partner will not want to stay with me.我常常担心伴侣不想继续和我在一起。

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3. I often worry that my partner doesn't really love me.我常常担心伴侣其实并不真的爱我。

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4. I worry that romantic partners won't care about me as much as I care about them.我担心伴侣对我的在乎,不如我对他/她的在乎。

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5. I often wish that my partner's feelings for me were as strong as my feelings for him or her.我常常希望伴侣对我的感情,能和我对他/她的感情一样深。

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6. I worry a lot about my relationships.我对这段关系有很多担忧。

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7. When my partner is out of sight, I worry that he or she might become interested in someone else.伴侣不在身边时,我会担心他/她对别人产生兴趣。

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8. When I show my feelings for romantic partners, I'm afraid they will not feel the same about me.当我向伴侣表达感情时,我害怕对方没有同样的感受。

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9. I rarely worry about my partner leaving me.我很少担心伴侣会离开我。

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10. My romantic partner makes me doubt myself.我的伴侣让我开始怀疑自己。

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11. I do not often worry about being abandoned.我不常担心被抛弃。

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12. I find that my partner(s) don't want to get as close as I would like.我发现伴侣不想和我靠得像我希望的那么近。

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13. Sometimes romantic partners change their feelings about me for no apparent reason.伴侣有时会毫无缘由地改变对我的态度。

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14. My desire to be very close sometimes scares people away.我渴望亲密,但这种渴望有时会把人吓跑。

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15. I'm afraid that once a romantic partner gets to know me, he or she won't like who I really am.我害怕一旦伴侣真正了解我,就不会喜欢真实的我。

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16. It makes me mad that I don't get the affection and support I need from my partner.得不到伴侣的关爱和支持,我会感到愤怒。

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17. I worry that I won't measure up to other people.我担心自己在别人眼中不够好。

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18. My partner only seems to notice me when I'm angry.伴侣好像只有在我生气的时候才会注意到我。

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19. I prefer not to show a partner how I feel deep down.我不喜欢让伴侣看到我内心深处的感受。

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20. I feel comfortable sharing my private thoughts and feelings with my partner.我很愿意和伴侣分享我的私密想法和感受。

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21. I find it difficult to allow myself to depend on romantic partners.我很难让自己依赖伴侣。

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22. I am very comfortable being close to romantic partners.我非常享受和伴侣亲密相处。

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23. I don't feel comfortable opening up to romantic partners.我不太愿意向伴侣敞开心扉。

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24. I prefer not to be too close to romantic partners.我不喜欢和伴侣走得太近。

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25. I get uncomfortable when a romantic partner wants to be very close.当伴侣想要非常亲密时,我会感到不自在。

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26. I find it relatively easy to get close to my partner.我觉得和伴侣亲近相对容易。

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27. It's not difficult for me to get close to my partner.和伴侣亲近对我来说并不难。

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28. I usually discuss my problems and concerns with my partner.我通常会和伴侣讨论我的烦恼和顾虑。

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29. It helps to turn to my romantic partner in times of need.在需要的时候,向伴侣寻求支持对我很有帮助。

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30. I tell my partner just about everything.我几乎什么都会告诉伴侣。

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31. I talk things over with my partner.我会和伴侣一起商量事情。

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32. I am nervous when partners get too close to me.当伴侣靠得太近时,我会感到紧张。

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33. I feel comfortable depending on romantic partners.我很自在地依赖伴侣。

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34. I find it easy to depend on romantic partners.我觉得依赖伴侣很容易。

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35. It's easy for me to be affectionate with my partner.对伴侣表达爱意对我来说很自然。

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36. My partner really understands me and my needs.我的伴侣真正理解我和我的需求。

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第二部分:金钱信念(共 32 题) Part 2: Money Beliefs (32 questions)

以下问题关于你对金钱的看法和信念。
评分:1 = 强烈不同意,6 = 强烈同意
The following questions concern your beliefs and attitudes about money.
Scale: 1 = Strongly disagree, 6 = Strongly agree

37. I do not deserve a lot of money when others have less than me.当别人比我拥有更少时,我不应该拥有太多钱。

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38. Rich people are greedy.有钱人都很贪婪。

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39. People get rich by taking advantage of others.人们致富是靠剥削他人。

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40. I do not deserve money.我不配拥有钱。

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41. Good people should not care about money.好人不应该在乎钱。

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42. It is hard to be rich and be a good person.又有钱又是好人,这很难做到。

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43. The less money you have, the better life is.钱越少,生活越好。

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44. Money corrupts people.金钱会腐蚀人。

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45. Being rich means you no longer fit in with old friends and family.变得富有意味着你和老朋友、家人之间会产生隔阂。

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46. Things would get better if I had more money.如果我有更多钱,一切都会变好。

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47. More money will make you happier.钱越多,人越快乐。

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48. It is hard to be poor and happy.又穷又快乐,这很难。

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49. You can never have enough money.钱永远不嫌多。

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50. Money is power.金钱就是权力。

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51. Money would solve all my problems.钱能解决我所有的问题。

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52. Money buys freedom.金钱带来自由。

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53. Most poor people do not deserve to have money.大多数穷人不配拥有钱。

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54. You can have love or money, but not both.爱情和金钱只能选一个,不可兼得。

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55. I will not buy something unless it is new (e.g., car, house).我不会买二手的东西(比如车、房子)。

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56. Poor people are lazy.穷人都是懒惰的。

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57. Money is what gives life meaning.金钱赋予生命意义。

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58. Your self-worth equals your net worth.一个人的自我价值等于他的财富价值。

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59. If something is not considered the 'best,' it is not worth buying.不是"最好的"就不值得买。

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60. People are only as successful as the amount of money they earn.一个人的成功程度取决于他赚了多少钱。

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61. You should not tell others how much money you have or make.不应该告诉别人你有多少钱或赚多少钱。

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62. It is wrong to ask others how much money you have or make.询问别人有多少钱或赚多少钱是不礼貌的。

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63. Money should be saved not spent.钱是用来存的,不是用来花的。

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64. It is important to save for a rainy day.未雨绸缪,存钱备用很重要。

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65. People should work for their money and not be given financial handouts.人应该靠自己挣钱,而不是依赖他人的接济。

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66. I would be a nervous wreck if I did not have money saved for an emergency.如果没有应急储蓄,我会非常焦虑。

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67. You should always look for the best deal before buying something, even if it takes more time.买东西前应该货比三家,找到最划算的,哪怕要花更多时间。

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68. It is extravagant to spend money on oneself.把钱花在自己身上是一种奢侈。

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